The Sims 4 is a fantastic game with lots of storytelling, world building, and drama. But after a while, it can get pretty boring. Of course, players can always purchase one of the many expansion packs, but sometimes even that isn't enough. Players seeking drama in their game may have an itch left unscratched by the content available to them, and mods are a fantastic way to scratch it.

Whether players want more detailed interactions, deeper levels of storytelling, or random events that could cause a twist in their playthrough, there's a mod out there for that. The best part is that most mods for The Sims 4 are free for anyone who has the means to download them. These mods are guaranteed to spice up every Simmer's game.

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1 Autonomous Proposal

For Those Sick Of Making The First Move

2 Sims kissing in front of a romantic background

One complaint that many Simmers have voiced is that they don't want to always have to be the one to propose in The Sims 4. With this mod, other Sims have the possibility of proposing to player Sims after reaching a certain relationship value with them. Of course, players are free to manipulate the likelihood of these interactions occurring.

Simmers have free control over all Sim relationships with this mod, such as whether Sims are open to polyamorous relationships, what restrictions Sims may have in their relationships, and whether Sims are happy with their partners. This mod offers tons of control over the love life of the player's Sims, as well as the opposite. Random proposals and breakups are a fantastic way to add considerable drama to any Sims game.

2 Meaningful Stories

Moodlets That Make More Sense

Sims 4 characters on dates around a fountain

This mod overhauls the moodlet system and causes Sims to behave in a much more realistic way. They won't die of excitement just because they enjoy the decor. This mod gives Sims more realistic reactions to things happening in their life, such as a child Sim being saddened by their forgotten birthday, or experiencing true happiness when they have their first kiss with a new partner. With this mod, moodlets can have varying degrees of intensity rather than being stuck at set values.

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This mod adds realism by making Sims work for their happiness rather than it being their "default state." Sims can even go into depressive ruts if the circumstances are unfortunate enough. Sims are more susceptible to happy moodlets when taken care of well, but they become much more responsive to negative moodlets when faced with discomfort. They won't simply switch from being upset to happy, but slowly graduate from one state to the other.

3 Personality Please

Makes NPCs More Lively

Sims townies grouped into an excited crowd

This mod adds more Sim autonomy and offers an expanded menu of interactions based on mood, relationship, and traits. With heightened autonomy and more available interactions, Sims have the potential to stir up talk to float amongst the townies.

NPC Sims become far less "flat" with this mod and have way more character to them, giving rise to unexpected friendships and more conflict among Sims with clashing traits. There are options to do things like turn off idle chat, learn things about other Sims through Deep Conversations, and even give pets more personality.

4 Mega Interactions

Because Of Course The Sims Needs More Of Those

A family holding a baby in The Sims 4

With this mod, Simmers can make many social interactions more personal, and even get more animations to go with them. Most of the interactions this mod adds are friendly, such as helping friends cope with their life issues and Sims venting about their own. Consoling friends becomes much more realistic with this mod, adding new layers of drama and storytelling.

There are other (optional) expansions to go with the mod, such as The One With All The Feelings, or The One With All The Romance, and even The One With The Loving Parents. Each of these separate add-ons all have tons of content to add.

5 Life's Tragedies

For Players That Want A Fear Factor

The Grim Reaper talking with someone in The Sims 4

This mod introduces tons of new dangers to the game, like serial killers, kidnappers, and other nefarious criminals. Make sure that Sims lock their doors at night and keep the many new killers out of their homes. Alternatively, a Sim can become an enthusiast and purchase posters of these crazy Sims to decorate walls with. With risks like these, Sims games are bound to be brimming with tension that keeps players on the edge of their seats.

This mod also adds things like fatal illness to the game, which can cause Sims to die unless surgical action is taken. These surgeries are risky and don't have a high success rate, adding a lot of tension to the game. Players can control the speed/frequency at which these unfortunate happenings occur, and can even manually start tragedies themselves if they choose

6 Talents & Weaknesses

Make Sims Good (Or Terrible) At Anything

A Sim making candles in a workshop

Ever find it odd that Sims universally progress the same way with everything (by default, of course)? With the Talents and Weaknesses mod, players can either randomize or customize the talents and weaknesses of every Sim in their game by either boosting, slowing, or completely disabling experience gain for every skill.

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Given the base game Aspirations options in The Sims 4 are pretty lackluster, these Aspirations mods can help keep things exciting.

Imagine finding out that a nerdy and science-y Sim is secretly a natural-born athlete, or that an artistic Sim is gifted in handiwork. These factors can add and remove potential career opportunities for Sims depending on what they are and aren't good at. Or, players can just make their Sims' enemies bad at everything.

7 Wonderful Whims

All Kinds Of Realistic Interactions

A Sim couple snuggling

In this mod, players can control many aspects of The Sims 4 that they couldn't previously. Players can give Sims more personality as well as trait preferences; for example, jealous Sims may refuse to date noncommittal Sims. This can add new depth to both friendships and romances.

Wonderful Whims also adds an attractiveness mechanic to the game in much the same way as the compatibility feature, but this one only goes skin-deep. Customize (or randomize) Sims' preferences as to the appearance of their partner. These features, among many others, are available to add for free on the modders' website. For the more mature Simmer, the adult version, Wicked Whims, is also available.

8 Basemental Alcohol

Enhance The Sims Clubbing Scene

A group of Sims dancing in a brightly lit club

For the Simmer who wants to change the "juice" in The Sims 4 into actual alcohol, this mod is perfect. Have Sims order a Screwdriver instead of a Wrench, or an actual Dark and Stormy instead of a Dim and Gusty. Have Sims go clubbing in a more realistic way with the added drunkenness feature, which has much more potential for drama than the regular Dazed moodlet. They can even drunk text other Sims.

The Basemental mod studio has other mods that can enhance gameplay, but the majority are intended for adult Simmers. They can add a ton of drama and allow the player to control which Sims are involved with what drama, how much that drama affects others, et cetera. All Basemental mods are free to download and can be found on the publisher's website.

9 Relationship Wellness Overhaul

Realistic Relationship Elements (Plus Online Dating!)

Two Sims kissing in front of a flower stand

This mod expands on healthcare features and adds elements of realism such as contraceptives, fertility risks, and potential health problems. Players can control their Sims' preferences in terms of partners and interactions, their gender identity, and their romantic preferences. It can also add a jealousy feature to spice up your Sims' relationships, and take things beyond clicking on the "Jealous" trait in Create a Sim.

This mod pack includes a dating app feature called Meet and Mingle, similar to real-life dating apps. Sims can choose to go on fully or semi-blind dates, establish relationship goals, have NPC Sims reach out based on dating profile preferences, and more. Of course, players have full control over their modded experience with this pack, and there is a variant available called the Mental Wellness mod.

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SUBSCRIPTION
DIGITAL
PHYSICAL
Checkbox: control the expandable behavior of the extra info

ESRB
T for Teen: Crude Humor, Sexual Themes, Violence
Developer(s)
Maxis
Platform(s)
PS4, Xbox One, PC
Genre(s)
Simulation